Why is Female Ejaculation Enhanced by Tantra?
"female ejaculation is ancient"
Although Aristotle spoke eloquently of female ejaculation, and the western physician Regnier de Graaf dissected the female prostate's glands and ducts in the 17th century, the eastern religion of Tantra elevated it to an art and a sacred ritual. The picture (at left) is from their temple at Khajuraho, India.
They believed that sexual energy is the source of life, and that this energy is carried through the body as breath, setting every nerve on erotic fire. They developed hours-long rituals of enhanced techniques and positions to heighten the senses to their fullest. Their goal was to have long, extended orgasms that transport the couple in union to an altered state. Sex to them was like a prayer.
There is much we can borrow from Tantra in learning to awaken our g-spot and produce ejaculate. Because the g-spot is a prostate gland, it is highly sensitive, as most men can attest to. Some Tantra body workers argue that the g-spot stores sexual trauma, much like our body stores painful emotional events in tense muscles. G-spot massage techniques release this tension and its pent up emotion, thereby healing the area and restoring it to its original state of ultra sensitivity. The video, Tantric Journey to Female Orgasm, shows the first ever g-spot massage.
The Tantra practice of slowing way down to heighten one's erotic pleasure can provide deeper levels of intimacy with your loved one. Sitting on your partner's lap in intercourse while gazing into each other eyes with the sole intent of making it last as long as possible, provides the kind of stimulation and security that encourages many women to ejaculate freely and copiously.
Love Your Erotic Juices
"female ejaculation is healthful"
Years ago, men's and women's sexual responses were thought to be very different: men ejaculate, women don't; women have multiple orgasms, men don't. So, if a man was making love to a woman and all of a sudden, there was a big gush of liquid, she was often chastised for pissing in bed. Men turned off to ejaculate because of its association with urine, and women suppressed their natural ability to ejaculate because of this attitude.
Women need encouragement to ejaculate, and that means an attitude adjustment about our body's fluids. The prevailing attitude we learned is urine, sweat and cum is dirty and unhealthy, and western religion has taught that women's sexuality is unclean. And AIDS has only ingrained this attitude deeper still. These negative attitudes are damaging to our sexual relations. Body fluids are natural and even provocative. The body is an incredible chemical organism and its beautiful physical form venerated in art. It's fluids, by extension, are beautiful and healthful. The eastern spiritual religion of Tantra views women's bodies as temples. In fact, female ejaculate is considered a prize health tonic when rubbed into the body or drunk, invigorating and uplifting her male partner.
So, drink up guys! It smells pleasant and offering to sleep in the wet spot will not only make points, but be good for you, too.